does he care beyond friends?

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Registered: 01-08-2006
does he care beyond friends?
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Sun, 01-08-2006 - 12:26pm
I have been good friends with a guy for about 5 months and we are both attaracted to each other. He does not have a girlfriend and I don't have a boyfriend. He likes to ask me questions like "how's your boyfriend" only for me to reply "you know I don't have one" and who I hang out with and who calls me etc...is this a sign he is interested in me other than just friends? I think he is interested in me but i think he wants to go slow. Anyone have a clue? Thanks!
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Sun, 01-08-2006 - 4:19pm

I think he is just fishing for information. If he wanted to ask you out he would have done so by now.

I am tempted to tell you that next time he asks, tell him, "He's great, we're getting married in June."

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Registered: 10-22-2004
Sun, 01-08-2006 - 4:43pm
When a guy is interested in a female, there are no stops in letting them know. If you have to question his interests, then he's probably not. You shouldn't have to question, you would know. Keep hanging out with him, if you enjoy his company, and don't let other options pass you by. Eventually, you will meet someone who will let you know there interested. Take care
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 01-08-2006 - 8:06pm

well he certainly is taking it slow, maybe yo ucan ask him for coffee or lunch to discuss something you'd like his advice on - guys, even shy ones,

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Registered: 01-08-2006
Mon, 01-09-2006 - 9:42am
Thanks ladies for your input, I think I will just wait and see what happens.