Does he have feeling for me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2004
Does he have feeling for me?
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Fri, 07-23-2004 - 12:36pm
Hello,

I met a man through online-dating 4 months ago. We communicated thorugh e-mail and phone a little bit then we met.

He works all the time. He gets home from work late, goes on out-of-town trips often. Even if I call his cell, it always goes to answering machine. He emphasizes about sex all the time when we talk and meet. We meet at least once a month, so I want to talk and do something with him.

First his thought about us was just play around because he is workaholic(I am sure he is commitment-phobia too), so he can't give me lots of time to spend and "I love you" and "I miss you" were very BIG words for him that time. Our communication pattern was I call first then he called me back. (I was so tired of it) It seems me a little bit change so far because last few times, he gave me unexpected calls,(Last one he gave me a call when he got home from out-of-town business trip.) he started saying to me "I missed you","I was thinking about you" and held my hands etc.

I have doubt that all these things he says and does to me because he just wants to have sex with me? Should I trust that his words come from his true feelings? My friend told to me that "If he is not interested to you, he won't call you back , you need give him more time!

Please help me!!!



iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 1:14pm
Sounds to me like he's married and you're his mistress. If not, he's just using you for the sex and is telling you what you like to hear. Get out of it and find someone who's going to focus on you!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 1:21pm
A man will not call if he is not interested. Also take in consideation that he may be upping his game to get you in the sack. Don't do anything unless you want to and can deal with whatever the aftrmath will be. If he turns out to be genuine or a jerk. It's your call.