Does he know what I want really?

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Registered: 02-26-2005
Does he know what I want really?
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Sun, 03-11-2007 - 6:53pm

My bf and I been so intimate for more than a year now. He set me to his schedule and to his daughter that until now I haven't met and his parents doesn't know me . His bestfriend in highschool knew me,and some of his friends. He is not shy or hiding me around going to parties, malls or going around. He told me that his daughter knows me and already see me in picture but we haven't meet. I wan't to settle down. A single like me who is 36 is really cannot wait to have a family of my own. I work on hard on this to work the relationship, we're happy going out but I want more than that like a family. He told me that he is serious with me and it will takes time that soon I will meet her daughter..that promise was since January and now is March. I don't know until when I should wait or I don't know what is the right to tell him that will convince him to decide when I already told him that we need to move to a certain level...I was so open with him,to my friends and from my family..I'm so proud of him. Help me on what should I do.

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Registered: 02-26-2005
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 11:31pm
Hi, I got so many same answers and really help me a lot. Some ideas that I need to do in my life. We broke up for just a few days and he just got back,giving him the chance. Since I'm planning to go for a trip without him by my side, been a long time plan. Now, he promise before I go that he'll introduce me to his child and he'll not be here right now in front of me if he is afraid of commitment.I'm no longer gonna wait for what he said,though it really made me happy to hear those words from him. I'll keep my eyes open for some opportunity and make reservations for myself. If that another step meeting his child will come true..it means ..this is real. Not only a words from mouth but it comes from the heart. Thank you and this chat room ivillage.com really a great help for me.
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Registered: 02-26-2005
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 11:34pm
Hi, I got so many same answers and really help me a lot. Some ideas that I need to do in my life. We broke up for just a few days and he just got back,giving him the chance. Since I'm planning to go for a trip without him by my side, been a long time plan. Now, he promise before I go that he'll introduce me to his child and he'll not be here right now in front of me if he is afraid of commitment.I'm no longer gonna wait for what he said,though it really made me happy to hear those words from him. I'll keep my eyes open for some opportunity and make reservations for myself. If that another step meeting his child will come true..it means ..this is real. Not only a words from mouth but it comes from the heart. Thank you and this chat room ivillage.com really a great help for me.

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