does he love me or not?
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does he love me or not?
| Fri, 06-25-2004 - 11:08pm |
Hello. I have been dating someone for the past three years, in the first year I was cheated on and hurt really badly and he promised that he loved me and that he knew he was wrong, and that he would never hurt me again. As he started going back away to school this past september I began to lose trust in him and constantly call he became annoyed and broke up with me after all his promises and after him breaking my heart. He then started dating an old friend of his and cheated on her with me and then broke up with her and went back out with me. After a fight about a month later he broke up with me again and sure enough went back to that other girl, who has been in love with him since him and I started going out( while we went out she would write him poems, and give him flowers) he broke up with her on and off because I said I didnt want to talk to him because he hurt me. About 2 weeks ago I started talking to him again and he would say how he loves me and how things with her aren't the same, and he would get really close to me like we used to get and say how much he missed me. Sometimes he says he hopes we have a future. After realizing that time after time, lie after lie he never stops hurting me I just stopped talking to him-he missed my graduation and it really upset me. So what is it does he love me or not? Is he playing games? What kind of games? What is that I should do? How will I be sure if he ever really does change? I mean how will I know if he is going to hurt me again? What do I do if he calls, in which most likely he will-cause he doesnt go long without talking to me? What also bothers me is that when I act like I dont like him like than he tries to be more but when I want more he turns me away! Why?! Please e-mail me back. Thankyou sooo much!
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| Sun, 06-27-2004 - 12:54am |
Why do you continue with this losser? How many times will he have to cheat on you for you to "see" that he doesn't respect you as a person? He truly can be charming and that's what he seems to do best to win you back; he says" I love you" and you fall in his trap once more. He is thinking in his own needs and being selfish. Move on and learn to respect yourself. People treat you like you make them treat you.
