Does he like me or not?
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Does he like me or not?
| Sun, 06-06-2004 - 9:02pm |
I met this guy at work (he doesnt work there, he was with his dad). He flirted quite frivolous and even to my coworkers they said "he really digs you". Well I gave him my cell # and he called me. We talked for about an hour and I had to go because I was going to a conference then the next day he called again and we again talked for an hour until I had to go to a conference. He told me his dad thought we made a cute couple. I had met his dad before a couple times and he kept telling me I should really meet his son because we both like to travel and that his son and I should arrange to go to europe together since we both were planning to go. The next day I called him from work and chatted with him a few minutes and told him to tell his dad I said hi. He said, "OK I will tell dad the stalker says hi". I got kind of mad at that statement and told him I will let him eat his lunch and talk to him later. He called me the next day wanting to meet up out and asked me where I was. I was out with my girlfriends and he and a friend of his came to where we were. We went to a club. He danced with me and hugged me and held my hands. Everytime I left his side to dance with my girlfriends all these chics would flock onto him. He didnt really talk to any of them. He had a few beers and his friend wanted me to take him home so he could hook up with another girl. I told him whatever but I wanted to leave because I had to work early. I know he didnt want me to take him home so I wanted to leave but he wouldnt let me until they did. We walked to the cars outside and I told him bye and his buddy took him home. I was talking to my friend and she said his friend told her my guy had just gotten out of a relationship recently and didnt want to jump back into one.
Now my question is does this guy have an interest in me at all? And what is the deal if he had just gotten out of a relationship? He didnt tell me any of that.
Now my question is does this guy have an interest in me at all? And what is the deal if he had just gotten out of a relationship? He didnt tell me any of that.

I will in time find out about the relationship issue and what happened. I am sure his father would volunteer any info to me willingly!
I just dont want to be a rebound girl and I also want to know how to take any relationship I may come upon because that is one area I have no earthly idea about on how to!
So, should I let him call me all the time and not be pushy or ask him out?
Most girls are confused because they don't hear from the guy...you hear from him all the time and you're confused? :))
You don't have to call him...he knows you like him...no one stays on the phone for an hour with someone they don't like! Maybe he wants to take things slower and do things right this time with you...maybe he's interested but scared...there are many explanations for his behavior...just be alert to the fact that he's just come out of a relationship...and two...calling someone a stalker...that's a very strong, ugly term...why would he deem that appropriate, cute or funny? You didn't find it funny...I would investigate things more before I let him get closer.
We continue to talk nearly everyday and then yesterday he called me wanting to know what I was doing and if a few of my girlfriends wanted to come over to his house because he didnt feel like going out since he had been working all day and his friends were sitting around over there. I called him back and told him my girlfriends were going to a pub and I am to meet them there. He said he was tired and wanted to stay at home and that he was sitting in his hottub. Well about 15 minutes later he showed up at this pub I was at. So I am taking this as he likes me but then I see him talk to other chics but I dont know what he says to them. Maybe just casual conversation. Well after the pub closed he invited my girlfriends and I back to his house. Only one of the girls with me decided to come with me. I didnt want to go alone because this is the first time I actually went over after being invited. So we got there and hung out in his rec room watching TV. I laid down on his lap and he put his arm around me. Then he asked me if I was tired I could go upstairs and go to bed because he was going to bed. I followed him up the stairs and then I wasnt sure what to say next so I asked for a blanket and then he found one for me and I went downstairs and layed on the couch. We all woke up and had breakfast. We chitchatted for a while and then my girlfriend finally woke up and we headed out. He told me to have fun at work today. No hug no kiss. We looked at each other before I left. I am so confused! So someone tell me. What is the deal?