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Does he really love me
| Tue, 09-28-2004 - 6:21pm |
My boyfriend and I met 2 months after he split with his wife of 28 years. Two months later I moved in with him. Four months after that I moved out. It's now 3 months later and he has been trying to get back with me. His ex-wife just wrote me an email stating that he was cheating on me the whole time I lived with him with her. Also she said other things that he told her that the only way she would know is if he did say them. He has broke it off with her for good he says, but with everything that was said and it was alot of not very nice things (he said I was fat, not very smart, had bad taste in decor, Does he really love me or am I a rebound. Since I broke it off with him, I was told his ego was hurt and now its really the chase. If he catches me, will he do this again? Needing some comments from you out there. Help

He's already broken the trust you had for him by going and telling his ex-wife things that were spoken between the two of you. I don't know if she'd have a reason to lie about the rest of it. She's already divorced him and knows what he's really like.
I was married to a man that used to tell me the same things. Seriously....he couldn't fill out an application on his own, but he could find himself a honey. I problems with anyone who'd tell me I was fat and not too smart. Granted we tend to say things in the heat of a fight. But, your guy is messing with your head by saying those things. After a while you may start to believe him.
I don't think you've broken his ego, sounds like he has a whole lot left over. It's a wonder he can walk through the door with that big head sitting on his shoulders. He just doesn't like to lose. He wants to be the person to dump.
If I were you, I'd say SEE YA and not look back! You can do MUCH better than him.
Sending you many hugs.