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Does he want more?
| Sat, 09-10-2005 - 8:37pm |
I am needing advice. I have this guy friend who I've known for 1 1/2 years. We were a couple for awhile but ended that. So now we're just friends but wonder if he wants back together. He's in the military and was overseas for a year but is back and I went and visited him a couple weeks ago. We spent the entire weekend together and he stayed with me at my hotel. I honestly didn't think he would. When he took me to his barracks I was suprised to find he still had the things I gave him when we were a couple, hanging up in his room. It was sweet. he made me a CD label before I came too. THe entire weekend he paid for everything. He wouldn't let me pay. He bought lotto tickets and let me pick them out. WE had so much fun, laughing, being goofy, etc. We did end up sleeping together and it was great! It was funny when his brother called about him coming home for his brother's wedding. My friend told him he was throwing his life away. But the kicker was that he was laughing when he said it and was looking away from me. Shows me he wasn't serious about the statement. I'm a NASCAR fan big time and he isn't a huge one but he said he had wished he had taken me to a local race while I was there. I was stunned. DIdn't expect that. It was obvious he was nervous as he was tapping his fingers, fidgeting, etc, etc. It was the first time we got to be in the same place since meeting online. We IM and email a lot and always had fun. Originally he didn't want to go to college when he got back but when I was there he was asking me about going to school and asked about him going to vet school. I happen to work for one he knew I'd like to go to vet school. I was dumbfounded when he asked about going cause in teh beginning he said he didn't want cows or horses on his farm. Now its just the opposite. I would love to get back together but wonder if I should ask him or wait until his discharge is done and he's back home. Do you think he wants back together?? Seems like it to me. Should I call him and talk to him? Or should I wait until he's home? Thanks!
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| Sat, 09-10-2005 - 8:58pm |
He sounds like he may want to get back together. But I would wait until after his discharge to discuss this with him. He is showing a lot of signs of still caring about you. Don't look too much into his comment to his brother about throwing his life away. Maybe the fiance is a B. You should tell him you had a great time in letters and e-mails, but if you pressure him into a relationship, before he comes home, he might back away. When he does come home, let the relationship develop and see where it goes.
| Sat, 09-10-2005 - 10:02pm |
I agree. In this scenario I would choose to take it slow and let the friendship or relationship shape up naturally. It's much better that way.
