does my friend's crush like her or not?

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Registered: 08-20-2004
does my friend's crush like her or not?
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Fri, 08-20-2004 - 11:29pm
My friend needs some advice. what does it mean when her crush tells her that she is beautiful more than once or if he tells her that he "loves her" when he wanted her to do something for him or when she looks at him he looks off and then he looks back at her and smiles. What does it mean when her friends suggest that her and him start talking on phone more and get to know each other better. They have a lot of similarities but I wonder if he is afraid to tell her how he really feels. She needs a sign.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-21-2004 - 12:30am
She doesn't need a sign - she needs to pay attention and really listen. As you said in your post:

"What does it mean when her friends suggest that her and him start talking on phone more and get to know each other better."

That's a pretty clear statement that he wants to talk with her more and get to know her more. Maybe he lacks some confidence or has a great fear of rejection, but has he asked for her telephone number? Has she offered/given him her number?

Let your friend know that men mean exactly what they say the vast majority of time. She just needs to respond.