Does sex mean anything anymore?!
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Does sex mean anything anymore?!
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 4:32pm |
I have read so many posts recently where people talk about having sex with people that they aren't in a relationship with. Does anybody ever fall in love before they have sex anymore? I guess I'm really old fashioned, I have never had sex with someone that A)I wasn't in a relationship with or B) that I didn't love...I just don't understand why people would even consider having a friends w/ benefits situation or have sex with someone they barely know. It seems that sex doesn't mean anything to anybody anymore and it's not taken very seriously. Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex, but to me there is alot more to a relationship than sex. I was just wondering if I'm the only person that feels this way?

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It seems to me he was actually saying that men can get away with it (the double standard) and I must say I agree that they do get away with it......but, not with me or you. There is some girl out there who would definitely look the other way (or really agree with him) in order to be in a relationship with him. I am not that girl and neither are you. We'd kick him to the curb and would rather be alone than be with a person who treats women so disrespectfully.
Edited 7/12/2004 1:00 pm ET ET by whitemonkey
Edited 7/12/2004 1:05 pm ET ET by whitemonkey
And sex with strawberries is great...LOL
A man will want to know about her sexual past to see if she is worth it.The way to tell someones future is by there past. He doesnt want to feel like a piece of meat to her which is most likely going to happen with a promiscuous women. Is she worth his time? IMO, once a slut, always a slut. They never ever change. No promiscuous women is worth any mans time. She treats herself like trash, so why shouldnt the guy treat her this way?
Its up to the man who if he will accept her behavior and 99.9% of the time he wont. Then she'll come crying on this board about it. Well duh. Have some self respect.
The thing is - you can call a guy a slut, ho etc............ Do you actually think its going to bother him?? Heck no! You have just stroked his ego in a positive way, because he is sleeping with many women. He will be called a pimp or player which guys want to be.
Now if you call a girl any of the above, what happens to her? Exactly. No guy will accept her for her type of behavior. She is disposable
So the point of double standards is moot. Men are not emotional as to women are greatly are. Any guy who judges a women on her promiscuous behavior is doing a good thing for himself to prevent drama.Promiscuous women are in need of counseling not the man in ths situtation, due to her unstable lifestlye
Edited 7/12/2004 2:20 pm ET ET by djrazr
Edited 7/12/2004 2:25 pm ET ET by djrazr
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