Does size/chemistry matter to you?

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Registered: 09-26-2006
Does size/chemistry matter to you?
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Fri, 11-03-2006 - 1:33pm
I consider myself to be a pretty passionate gal and I've been dating this guy on and off for sometime.
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Registered: 02-02-2005
Fri, 11-03-2006 - 3:29pm
well honestly yes..i guess size does matter a bit to me. But if i met someone i really liked and things were great, I wouldnt care. I did date a guy who was small in that area once and things were still great. If it bothers you, then you should stop dating him. I would probably be annoyed if some guy had sex with me once...then ended things...so be prepared for hurt feelings. We cant help who we have chemistry with...i normally can tell before the sex though.
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 7:39am

Personally for me sex is very important in a relationship (was in a marriage where it was an issue) so yes, sexual chemistry and even size matters to a point. It's true that if the chemistry is there, size may not be as important but I would not settle for a relationship in which there was no spark in the bedroom.


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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 8:00pm
It definitely sounds like you want to just be friends - there wasn't one positive sexually related thing you said here. Chemistry is important. But you should be diplomatically careful not to lead him on in any way. You've been intimate once, he may not realize that just friends means no sex.
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