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dont know if iam right here
| Tue, 01-10-2006 - 11:06pm |
hi
ok where do i start ,i guess you could say i have been in a long distance relationship.my boyfriend left me 3 years ago ,and went back to his homestate. but we started talking on the phone ,he also asked me to marry him ,i waited and everytime i ask him when he was comimg to see me he said he has no money or something else went wrong.i still love him ,and iam so hurt right now,in shock i think.i called him yesterday.ok first of all i should say i hadnt called him since beginning of october ,mostly because he said he cant call me no money really,but i never thought he would not call at all.so yeaterday i had enough ,so i called ,at first we talked normally ,and then he said he was moving to l.a .i said why ,he said iam getting married .i said i guess i shouldnt call you anymore ,good luck ,he said you too ,and i hung up. omg i am in shock can nayone help with this .what did i do ,or not do?
ok where do i start ,i guess you could say i have been in a long distance relationship.my boyfriend left me 3 years ago ,and went back to his homestate. but we started talking on the phone ,he also asked me to marry him ,i waited and everytime i ask him when he was comimg to see me he said he has no money or something else went wrong.i still love him ,and iam so hurt right now,in shock i think.i called him yesterday.ok first of all i should say i hadnt called him since beginning of october ,mostly because he said he cant call me no money really,but i never thought he would not call at all.so yeaterday i had enough ,so i called ,at first we talked normally ,and then he said he was moving to l.a .i said why ,he said iam getting married .i said i guess i shouldnt call you anymore ,good luck ,he said you too ,and i hung up. omg i am in shock can nayone help with this .what did i do ,or not do?

What you did was believe in a fantasy that your exboyfriend wanted a relationship with you. The fact that he always didn't have money or another issue as to why he wasn't going to visit you should have been a big clue that he wasn't serious but just enjoyed the phone calls.
It's good that you got to the bottom of things, now you can move on.
I am so sorry. I was engaged to a man who lived long distance and it sounds exactly like the same story. We talked constantly on the phone and when I told him that I was going to visit for Valentine's Day as a surprise (had to tell him upfront to make things easier) he informed me that he had been living with a woman since October. Hurt like wildfire. You just have to grieve the relationship and move on. I am sorry this has happened to you.
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