Don't know what to think

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Registered: 03-21-2004
Don't know what to think
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Thu, 06-01-2006 - 11:39am

Hi,

like many of your questions mine is in regards to online dating. I met someone about 2-3 weeks ago and we hit it off right away. Since then we have spoken pretty much every day, we have spent a weekend together, have gone out quite a few times actually. We haven't been "fully" intimate yet and I have already told him that unless we are exclusive it's not happening. I have been told by him that it's not his style to date more than one person at a time. He told me he thinks are going well between us and he isn't looking to go on a date with someone else. However, I have noticed he goes online everyday a few time a day. How do I know this? Because after we met I didn't even bother to go online but suddenly wondered if he did. So I checked... is it too soon for me to even be concerned about it? Do I trust his words? Do I confront him?

incl

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Registered: 03-21-2004
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 1:55pm

Thank you for giving me advice and helping me out! :)
This was the first time I had been on this board but I found it very helpful! It is also a good place to vent! I mentioned last night on the phone that i had taken down my profile and he said he would take his down. Sometime this morning it came down. :)

Thanks again.

incl
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 1:59pm

Yay, I'm glad to hear that...don't know what took him so long but I'm glad he finally got around to it ;-).

Sheri

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Registered: 03-21-2004
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 2:25pm

Me too! :)

When we spoke last night he had just gotten home from work (he's a cop) and was heading back out shortly to another city about and hour from Toronto b/c he had a job interview thismorning at the Police College. His parents live abput 1/2 hour away from the college. So it could have been timing. But the kicker I think is I sent him a text this morning saying Good luck and that I was really glad he took down his profile....Either way, it's not there anymore. :)

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