Don't know which guy to choose..
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Don't know which guy to choose..
| Fri, 05-18-2007 - 2:12pm |
Hi,
I've been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and he always seems to be the less affectionate, lack of words and expressing himself kind of guy. I'm three years older than him, and i have 2 kids. I want someone that wants to settle down, and move in with me, but the chances of that happen with him him are slim to none, due to us living in different cities and the fact that he doesn't drive. I feel like i have fallen in love with him, but he's not with me. I have tried to break up with him about six times now, but somehow he found ourselves getting back together. One of these times we were broke up, i met someone else. He's 5 years older than me, same situation seperated getting divorced, and one kid. This guys wants to settle down, and a relationship with me, he says he's in love with me. I'm not in love with him, but i think i like him and there's attraction. He's somehow opposite to my boyfriend. He calls all the time and wants to spent time with me. He's settle financially with his life and i feel that he can provide for me and give all the thing i once had when i was married. He doesn't know about my boyfriend, all he knows is that i have had a long term relationship with someone and that we broke up and that i'm still in love and trying to get over it, and that i'm not ready for a relationship with him, just friendship. I'm getting confused about this all situation. I'm back with my boyfriend again, but it doesn't seem to go anywhere, but i feel so strong for him that i can't let go. I wanted him to be the one, but it's so difficult for him, financially and all. He's even thinking about moving to a different province because he thinks that there better opportunities there for him. But he doesn't want to break up if he goes...that makes it very complicated for me. I want better things in my life, and my kids, but above all, be happy. I feel like i'm stuck in this situation and don't know where to turn..Any advise? I can't choose...
I've been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and he always seems to be the less affectionate, lack of words and expressing himself kind of guy. I'm three years older than him, and i have 2 kids. I want someone that wants to settle down, and move in with me, but the chances of that happen with him him are slim to none, due to us living in different cities and the fact that he doesn't drive. I feel like i have fallen in love with him, but he's not with me. I have tried to break up with him about six times now, but somehow he found ourselves getting back together. One of these times we were broke up, i met someone else. He's 5 years older than me, same situation seperated getting divorced, and one kid. This guys wants to settle down, and a relationship with me, he says he's in love with me. I'm not in love with him, but i think i like him and there's attraction. He's somehow opposite to my boyfriend. He calls all the time and wants to spent time with me. He's settle financially with his life and i feel that he can provide for me and give all the thing i once had when i was married. He doesn't know about my boyfriend, all he knows is that i have had a long term relationship with someone and that we broke up and that i'm still in love and trying to get over it, and that i'm not ready for a relationship with him, just friendship. I'm getting confused about this all situation. I'm back with my boyfriend again, but it doesn't seem to go anywhere, but i feel so strong for him that i can't let go. I wanted him to be the one, but it's so difficult for him, financially and all. He's even thinking about moving to a different province because he thinks that there better opportunities there for him. But he doesn't want to break up if he goes...that makes it very complicated for me. I want better things in my life, and my kids, but above all, be happy. I feel like i'm stuck in this situation and don't know where to turn..Any advise? I can't choose...

It appears you are waiting for your boyfriend to change...and he is not going to.