Don't want to move in...or lose him!
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Don't want to move in...or lose him!
| Mon, 01-30-2006 - 1:01am |
So I recently met the most amazing guy, we dated for 4 weeks and now he has moved to a city 2 and a half hours away. We tried doing long distance for 2 weeks and he absolutely hates it and says he can't take it, he won't fall in love with a girl he can only see two days a week (on the weekend). So now he asked me to move there with him. It's either that or we break up. I have no idea what to do, I'm not ready to move in, both since I don't feel I know him well enough (although so far what I've seen is amazing, more than I've ever dreamed), and because I'm just not ready (i'm only 22)). What should I do or say to him? I hate the thought of breaking up but I have no idea what to do.

I strongly recommend not making a life altering decision for a guy you've only known 6 weeks. The right guy for you is going to be the one that fits into *your* life, not a guy that makes you fit into his.
If he's not willing to do the long distance, and he's not willing to move to your town, then I think you should break up. And perhaps circumstances will change one day and you'll be in a position to get back together.
But don't leave your friends, family, school/job for him now.