Dose he want his X girlfriend Back

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Registered: 11-08-2004
Dose he want his X girlfriend Back
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Mon, 12-06-2004 - 10:58am
I have been talking to this guy for over a month now and the other night he brought up his x-girlfriend. We have not gone out on a date yet but have hung out. He said something to the effect of she emailed me to see if I wanted to get back together with her and he said I told her no. She cheated on him and then married another guy and she is going through a divorce with this guy right now. Do you think he wants her back. He didn't tell me all this but, I know people who told me the story. He seems to really like me he calls me all the time and emails me..... Is this an area where I should stay away from?
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Registered: 11-17-2004
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 4:59pm
How long ago did they date, and for how long?
It is perfectly reasonable to assume he was just thinking about what she said, rather than thinking he wanted to act on the fact that she suggested that. However, if he and she broke up less than 6 months ago, you should be a little nervous, I think - he could still be on the rebound. Really, it depends on his history with her - and also on what he says about her. Ask him! Find out what is going on in his head as regards to her! Then you'll know - either you will be reasurred, or you will feel something is fishy. Go with your gut, it will know.