dreams

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Registered: 04-22-2003
dreams
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Thu, 09-22-2005 - 6:30am

Hi,
I've posted a bunch of times about this guy that i'm casually dating these past 3 months. During that time i've still gone on other dates because I know I have to. This past week the guy i'm casually dating went away on a bachelor party. So I pretty much haven't heard from him since 2 weeks from sat. I'm trying to get him out of my head because It's not healthy for me personally to do this. So this past week i've either been having dreams about him not wanting to be with me or thinking about it the second I get up. Has this happened to anyone else? How can I stop thinking about it? I mean I know he will call me b ut the question is when?

Thanks!!

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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: riese2002
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 1:14pm

Well , he's on your mind a lot so it's not surprising you're dreaming about him. but try to occupy your waking hours with things are that fun, invigorating, etc, that fill your life. And remember you are free to see other people. The more you have going on in your life, the less time you'll have to be obsessed over this guy.


Sherry

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Registered: 10-16-2003
In reply to: riese2002
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 3:34am
i would not want to be left hanging even if it was a casual date, and it is pretty odd of ur date to not call you since the last 2 weeks. is this unnatural to you, or have you both always interacted sporadically like this. eitherways, i would call this person and ask him honestly. perhaps make it easier for him to speak his mind (just incase, he is no more interested).