ex bf referred to me as his soulmate

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Registered: 04-02-2004
ex bf referred to me as his soulmate
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Wed, 07-07-2004 - 1:04am
my ex bf and i broke up about 3.5 years ago. we were together for about 2 years. he recently told my friends that i'm his soulmate, but i wasn't there when he said it. what does this mean? or does it mean anything at all? i've been considering asking him whether he's interested in dating again to see where things may or may not go...so i'm a bit confused...any insight or advice is appreciated!
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 6:21am
Do nothing! Remember! Words are cheap! meaningless without actions! If he felt you were his "soul mate" then he would truly swim oceans and climb mountains to get you back into his life. Do and say nothing! It's his actions you judge..not his words. Dont be fooled into falling for words that are hollow..no substance..without actions behind them. If you were his "soul mate"..he'd find a way to tell you this himself...in person!



Deborah

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 11:26am
I agree.

He didn't tell YOU these things, did he? No, he passed it off to one of your friends hoping that she would tell you. Well she did and now you're suppposed to go chasing after him. Don't bother! If he was serious, he would have called you before now.


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Registered: 04-02-2004
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 8:58am
you're right...but did i mention the fact that i broke his heart years ago? i was his first gf...does that make a difference in opinions now??