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| Mon, 11-28-2005 - 11:23am |
good morning,
I'm perplexed about some recent events that happend btwn my bf and I... yesterday, while we were on our way to the grocery store his cell phone was ringing, he didn't answer it. i didn't think anything of it at the time, until his phone rung again this time he answers it and tells the person on the other end that he would call them back - at this point the phone started ringing like crazy - i asked him who it was and he told me nobody then i asked again and he said "why don't people get the pic, when you don't answer/return any of their phone calls - why do they keep calling?" then he said that its his ex - in response, i went off - i told him that he was lying to me about what is actually happening btwn them and that he knows exactly why she's calling... needless to say, that ruined my afternoon. (BACKGROUND) - last weekend he openly talked to me about the exact same thing - i had no idea they were still communicating until he said something...
so, when we got home he proceeded to tell me that i have nothing to worry about she doesn't even live here & that when he's with someone its all or nothing. at that point, we kinda kissed and made up.
i thought everything was fine until he didn't want to have sex last night. his reason being was that i had made a comment a couple of weeks ago that everytime we saw each other he wanted to have sex, he said that we weren't going to have sex yesterday to proove me wrong. now, if we wouldn't had an argument about his ex earlier - i would have been delighted to know that he listens and takes my feelings into consideration but since we did have an argument i'm wondering if this could of had something to do w/it.
i guess i'm torn b/c i've been here before both the cheater and the one that has been cheated on. i would like to give this new relationship all that i have but i feel as though i can't b/c of fear of being hurt. what would you do in this situation?
