ex problem - moving on
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ex problem - moving on
| Tue, 08-17-2004 - 3:51am |
I've bin separeted from my ex for the past year and 1/2. Yet we still love each other. I can't take him back coz i don't trust him anymore. Reason for break up...he slept with my best friend. Now i know i should let him go and move on with my life. One thing i knw though, i don't want him back. I want the feeling of hurt to go away so i can be able love again.
Plus there's a guy i've bin interested in and he feels the same abt me.
Problem is i don't want to get with him, coz i can't trust myself. I feel as though somwhow, someday i'll get back together with my ex.
Please help me. I just don't knw how to go about getting over my ex, so i can move on with my life.
Plus there's a guy i've bin interested in and he feels the same abt me.
Problem is i don't want to get with him, coz i can't trust myself. I feel as though somwhow, someday i'll get back together with my ex.
Please help me. I just don't knw how to go about getting over my ex, so i can move on with my life.

i don't know if this was your husband
when you said separated, a lot of posters call
boyfriends ex's as well.... anyway.... i know
how much it hurts. and if you were together
for a long while, Even after 1 yr. & 1/2 you'll
still be hurt and hurting... so all i can say is
take it as slow as you can.. most of the time
a "new" love can heal the old one. but
trust is a very serious issue and should be talked
and worked out with new relationships.
work on your "own" heart for now.. even
if this mean a complete Break from relationships
in order to gain strength to go on. it can help you
build a stronger level of control to handling
"Human" disappointments that will and can show up again...
going back to a painful break up as "betrayal"
can be the hardest, and can put you
in a very confusing state of well being.
try "first" To see if without this relationship
you can forgive, let go, and move on.
find out what you truly want and what
is important to you, don't be
"afraid" to go after it "without" your ex.
build trust for you, build happiness
for you, "know" that you can have love
again, and be patient with "you"
And your broken heart...it will heal..
... when you least expect it...... :)
If you love God as I do .. hold on to
your faith and be strong......
even after 2yrs. i still hurt too.... but
i understand better now... and more
Able to let go of things and people that
are not good for me. And love again.
Give it time ... and be good to
you in the mean time.
take care
Good luck to you!
So go and give this new guy a chance.
The advice helped me alot.
Thank God for wonderful ppl like you.
Keep up the support.
Thanks.
Take care.