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ex roomate
| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 8:40pm |
hey, well i had this guy that i moved in with, it was purely sexual at first and we tried to fight it cause it was "Wrong" being roomates and everything. But that didn't last long cause we ended up hooking up for a month or so,we did lots of relationship types things together, and he told me that he would be super upset if I cheated on him at the time, so it was somewhat official, but then emotions happened, and he ended it cause roomates "don't do these things" and he wasn't ready to live with a girlfriend..and well he thought that it wasn't right. So we ended it but we continued to be roomates, and it has been like 6 months, and we continue to get along super well, but jeaulosy always comes up. We fight lots, and argue when we are out drinking....usually over something stupid,like if I am dancing or drinking, he doesn't like it, but for the most part we get along super well. Well i still sometimes have feelings for him, and I can sense that he does too, he looks at me lots, or when we are alone he will make comments about our past, or get weird if a guy phones, like ask for the phone all the time when I am talking to a guy, or pass by my room lots and joke that I have a boyfriend, and when I go out he always questions me. well I had a friend that doesn't know that we hooked up tell me that she thinks he likes me cause he always talks to me or looks at me when he has a girl over. I confessed to her we hooked up, and she thinks that he still has feelings. But when i was out the other night I started to be affectionate, and he said that it makes him umcomfortable and to just get over him, he started bringing up things that we have done recently like hung out and that just cause we have been getting along doesn't mean we are ever going to be, and told me to just get over him....wow. Sometimes I wonder if he is the one that needs to get over me, but maybe I am overanalyzing. So i just let it go, but i wonder if he is just trying to fight the feelings or he just doesn't like me....he has been hurt lots...lots of girls cheated on him, and is Not ready for anything, but I would like to know since he has just moved out...we still visit each other and there is some feelings on my part. Should I clear the air..what do u think from a guys perspective? does he like me or not? I still have feelings, and would be willing to pursue them if he wanted.
Edited 3/13/2004 3:17 am ET ET by hottyme
Edited 3/13/2004 3:17 am ET ET by hottyme
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| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 9:41pm |
I think you chose to have a purely sexual relationship and he just does not see you as relationship material.
| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 9:52pm |
I think if he wanted a relationship with you, you'd already know it. In fact, it sounds to me he has sent pretty clear signals that he doesn't want any kind of relationship, so it's best to forget about him and move on. The "looks" he was giving you when he was with another girl might just have been that he gets an ego boost by making you jealous.

