exboyfriend hanging coming around again

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Registered: 12-10-2004
exboyfriend hanging coming around again
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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 11:57pm
I need help with a bit of an issue that has arisen. I grew up with a particular guy and dated him in high school- I lost touch with him for 13 years and then ran into him again. We ended up dating for a year and then he broke up with me so he could have "relations" with a 17 year old- he was 31. We have been broken up for a year, he now has a new 23 year old girlfriend who lives with him because she moved out of her place and he offered to put her up for a while- she hasn't left. Now here's the catch. He has been coming around me again. When his girlfriend goes to work he calls- we go out for dinner- hang out like old times. I don't know if I want him back- but i do enjoy his company and I don't want her around anymore- and I'm sure if she knew how much he was hanging out with me- she would be PISSED!! UUGH- help please
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 12-11-2004 - 8:28am

itallie...

Simple answer. If your EX b/f can 'take in' a 23-year old...and cheat on her...it'll be just as easy for him to do the same thing to you.

The man isn't interested in being "exclusive" with anybody...no matter what he tells you!

Since you don't sound like a lady who spends all of her weekends alone...is this man the only one you have?

Pianoguy