Excitement and buildup for a first date
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Excitement and buildup for a first date
| Tue, 09-18-2007 - 11:49am |
So...i was out on saturday night with some friends when i saw a really cute guy across the bar. He noticed me too and as cheesy as it sounds we kept stealing glances and smiling at each other for a bit. He was so cute. I finally went up to the bar near him to get a drink, then he came over to me. We chatted for the rest of the time i was there. at the end of the night (about 1 am) he got my number as i was leaving. I gave him a hug goodbye. I know this sounds 'dangerous'

Awww...I'm excited for you too.
Thanks (: He mentioned we could get drinks and/or a bite to eat.
I guess i'll just have to be patient and not expect anything. I hope he even calls again! Said he'd call monday or tuesday.
"I guess i'll just have to be patient and not expect anything. I hope he even calls again! Said he'd call monday or tuesday."
I am so sick of people adopting this attitude.
I agree that it is too bad that we sometimes have to expect nothing when we've been told 'something.' I have to be honest though, there are times ive gone out with guys, said i had a good time to avoid awkwardness, then not answer if they call back. It might not be very nice, but it is just awkward to get on the phone and be like, yeah i'm sorry there's just no chemistry. And perhaps they were thinking that there was. That's just the way dating goes sometimes. i have been disappointed before by men so have many other women, i think that's why we are told to just not expect much in the beginning even if they guy is feeding us lines. He could be for real, he could have 5 other women he's also interested in. I have high hopes for my current situation...but seeing how i've been let down before when i felt this way...i guess i'm expecting that it wont work out as much as i want it too.
I do have to wonder, why are we always told that if we're too excited about something in the beginning that it often leads to nothing? ive seen it happen to a friend of mine constantly. But she normally gets physical too soon...do you think that really turns the guy off? I guess i think that if a
hey molly311, I can totally understand not getting your hopes up because we all do and feel the same.