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exclusive?
| Fri, 06-01-2007 - 9:39am |
I have been dating a guy for a few months now. I know he had been really into me earlier. I have already slept with him at this point but there has been no talk of exclusivity or anything like that. I don't think he is with anyone else, but is this something I should bring up. I don;t want to seem needy and push him away, but I don't want to be used or taken for a fool. Is this just assumed?

Never assume anything, if you want to be exclusive tell him. Gook luck,
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Don't assume. Ask.
Exclusivity should be a conscious decision by both parties. IMO, it's the first step to a healthy relationship.
Good luck!
Like "I want to be exclusive. I don't want either of us to see anybody else" and then see his response. I think direct is usually the best way to go. Saves time and then there's no room for "misinterpretations".
You're dating four months and having sex - it's reasonable for health reasons if nothing else to know if he's with anyone else.