Eyes for ex's good friend?
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| Mon, 11-20-2006 - 5:58am |
OK. I know the title sounds horrible on several levels. It is, but well here's the deal..
I've been apart from my ex for several months. We were together for 3 1/2, best friends, many of you have been there. Well, he has this friend who I've always admired and adored, even secretly crushed on. It never came to anything, for a couple reasons: we never associated much since the only time I would see him is if we visited my ex's home state or he came to visit us. But we talked more than my ex and I did - about anything and I always felt a strong sexual vibe, which I don't pick up a lot with guys.
The other reason was he was also in a long-term relationship. But all four of us are now split with the other, which means he is available as well. But he lives across the country, in NY and I in CA. So many things are going against this, maybe it's nothing more than wishful thinking.
He came to visit a few months ago, while my ex and I were still rooming together and when I saw him I just kind of went weak in the knees! He embraced me, or so I thought and it just felt good to be in his presence. I know there is a boundary with dating friend's exes, but if you think this is a complete deadend then could you at least ease this panic that it's never going to happen? I'm really saddened by the reality of this.
OK. One more thing, this is my last pathetic attempt at swaying the response to this - I'm an Aries and he's a Leo. Beautiful match I hear.
That's my case. Please be gentle!
Thanks,
Kat
