falls in love & starts cheating!?!?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-16-2005
falls in love & starts cheating!?!?
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Thu, 12-29-2005 - 8:27pm
What's with this guy? I am 46, he is 53. We have been seeing each other for 5 months. I told him when we first met that I was getting over a bad breakup and was not looking for anything real serious right away. We met online, started going out, got along great... 3 weeks after we met he says he loves me! Within 6 weeks he is talking about moving in together. Now I just found out he is back online and has been looking for and talking to other women, (and possibly has been with some)! What's the deal? I know this scenario happens, but usually not within the first few months.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2004
Thu, 01-05-2006 - 6:37pm

Ah, the man who can't take his profile down. They abound. This has happened to me twice in two LTRs. I think some men become addicted to internet dating. Why, I would never know. I find it to be grueling, painful and shallow.

Also, keep in mind, people with severe commitment issues never make deep connections (so they don't worry if they hurt you or leave) and the easiest way to spot them is they come on too strong in the beginning. I'm with the rest of the posters here, anything too early really sets the bells and whistles off with me now. It didn't used to, but boy it does now. Number one red flag for me!

Take care!

Chick

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