Family Christmas

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Registered: 10-03-2004
Family Christmas
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Thu, 11-18-2004 - 7:34pm
This guy and I have been hanging out a few times weekly for 4 months now. No sex - not even kiss. No relationship talk. No bf/gf titles. He invites me to spend Christmas with him, his parents and sister back in his hometown. What's going on? Guys, can I have your opinion? THANKS much!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: minijava
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 7:39pm

Yes...he considers you a platonic friend. He's not "taking you home to meet his family"...he's inviting you as a friend over for Christmas...it's just that his family will be there. particuarly if you have no close family or friends in the area, he probably doesn't like the idea of one of his "friends" spending Christmas alone.

Don't think of this as "meet the parents" pre-engagement!

Erin
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