fantasty

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Registered: 08-17-2004
fantasty
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Tue, 08-17-2004 - 7:39pm
i have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, is it ok that he has fantasied about sleeping with other women. It makes me sad. i asked him if we ever thought about having sex with someone else and he said yes. do you think he will cheat on me?
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Registered: 08-10-2003
In reply to: ashes555
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 8:21pm
Your man has told you he's had the thoughts and fantasies of sleeping with other women and that's normal, you know. He's confided in youan intimate thought. Women often times fantasize about sleeping with their favorite actor or model or a man they find attractive as well. Those thoughts aren't considered cheating; what it IS cheating is acting upon those thoughts and fantasies. As for your question...will he ever cheat on you?...that noone can answer right now. If he's a man of character and respects you and the relationship you've have for 3 years he'll never act on those ideas.
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Registered: 08-17-2004
In reply to: ashes555
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 9:34pm
thank you