Feel like I am Falling...
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Feel like I am Falling...
| Wed, 11-08-2006 - 4:13pm |
I have been exclusively seeing this man for 6 months now. We waited to get intimate for over a month and we get along nicely. We see each other very regularly and are quite affectionate towards one another. He does care for me.
Here is the thing....
I feel like I am falling for him the more we get intimate. This is all new to me again, since I am divorced for at least 2 years now. This is my first relationship post marriage. I prefer not to tell him "I love you" unless he says it first. I mean it has only been 6 months afterall. But I feel myself falling. It feels wonderful. A tad scary. Definitely feeling vulenrable.
I guess I just want input. I know he is cautious and I respect that. I am in no rush to do anything or get anywhere. I just wonder what he thinks.
Any thoughts? Thanks.
Here is the thing....
I feel like I am falling for him the more we get intimate. This is all new to me again, since I am divorced for at least 2 years now. This is my first relationship post marriage. I prefer not to tell him "I love you" unless he says it first. I mean it has only been 6 months afterall. But I feel myself falling. It feels wonderful. A tad scary. Definitely feeling vulenrable.
I guess I just want input. I know he is cautious and I respect that. I am in no rush to do anything or get anywhere. I just wonder what he thinks.
Any thoughts? Thanks.

<Any thoughts? Thanks.>>>
Honey, only he can tell you what he thinks. Six months is too short to say that you know that "he/she's the one". You're in the honeymoon stage, where you want to see each other and spend time together, discover your sexual preferences and such. After the 7th to 8th month of dating all the flaws start to emerge and each one will get a look at what hemand you are really about. Currently, you both are putting your best fot forward and that's fine.
In your place, I'd keep on dating him., enjoying his company and in general seeing if he and you are compatible. I wouldn't dream about getting married and having children yet, but exploring his personality to see if you both share similar standards in life.