Feeling so used, what should a girl do?
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Feeling so used, what should a girl do?
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 3:44pm |
I just don't seem to understand why in 7 years of marriage my husband will only have sex with me if he initiates it only. Does any one relate or have the answer????
Every time, no matter what, when or how if I approach him, it is always, "No, later, or I am exhausted and I want to but just can't."
I am beginning to ask for a surgeon who can make my mind and body not crave sex or him anylonger!

I would sprinkle some viagra in his dinner everynight, that way you won't have to initiate; he will always be ready. LOL, make sure he isn't on any heart medications!
Have you asked him? If so, what does he say? If not, what is holding you back from asking him?
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Ask him why he feels this way. Tell him that you are available for him, why isn't he available for you. He very well be not able to get it up because he is exhausted or is simply not able to make an erection. YOu should find out.
Get a sex toy for your sexual tension. That is another way to resolve your situation. good luck