Fiance issues...help!
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Fiance issues...help!
| Mon, 11-22-2004 - 7:22pm |
My fiance and I have been disagreeing lately in 2 things. #1...how we spend our weekends and #2 wedding planning. I like to keep busy on the weekends whereas he just likes to relax. He says why would the idea of going to "Bed,Bath and Beyond" be fun for him. He tells me maybe on a weekend afternoon I should spend it with friends or family, doing these things...and as for our wedding planning, he is not overly interested in the planning, i wish he was...is this normal for guys? Help! I'm stressing over this...
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| Mon, 11-22-2004 - 8:03pm |
I'm the same with my DF. Our strategy is to make way for each other's syles...there's nothing wrong with leaving him in front of the TV and taking off with your friends for the afternoon...you'll hook up in the evening with something to talk about...but consider when the kids come along, will he still be in front of the TV or will he be joining you outdoors? The wedding planning thing is pretty normal for the guys...I've accomplished plenty for the wedding and I decided that I was done and gave him the invite task...the last time he didn't have to do anything, his xw may have even chosen his tux for him. If you want your DF involved, narrow things down and then ask him about the two to four choices. Don't expect him to look over 3000+ invites with you.
| Tue, 11-23-2004 - 10:34am |
The wedding planning sounds pretty normal. Women often have had these elaborate plans for the wedding, whereas the man would often be just as happy doing something simple and getting it over with. If he's not interested, then maybe you could discuss with him what his ideal would be for the wedding and then compromise. If it was more simple, maybe he would be more interested in helping.
