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The Final Step
| Mon, 11-29-2004 - 12:14pm |
So i have been dating this guy for a while. I know i really love him. Recently the discussion of marriage came up. I am really excited we are talkign about it and cant wait for our future. on the other hand my tummy turns and sometimes i get a little scared. is this normal?? Maybe because i am a single mom its a little different. who knows. when do you know to trust your decisions?

When you don't have any doubts that this man is right for you in every way, and there are no doubts in your mind that he'll be a good father and role model to your child(ren) and love them as his own...that's when you trust your decision to stay with him and marry him. Not before. Having nervous jitters over taking such a big step is very different from having doubts about it. Nerves are normal. Doubts should stop you in your tracks b/c they are a warning.
IMO at least a year needs to go by before you can know someone well enough to be certain of the things I said above.