Finding Closure

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Registered: 03-23-2004
Finding Closure
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 12:09pm
Dear Doyenne:

I have been seeing this guy for 2 1/2 years. I found out last summer that the person he had been telling me is his friend is actually a women he has been going out with for 13 years (yes)! Now I know you might say how I could not have known, but these two people spend absolutely no time together (maybe she'll stop over twice a month), that is why I beleived him when he said they were friends. Now here lies my problem, we decided to just be friends and stop seeing each other as a couple but I still love him so much and I really need some advice on how to get some closure from this. Should I be friends or just let it go?

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 03-23-2004 - 12:14pm
Why would you want to be friends with a liar?