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| Mon, 06-26-2006 - 9:53pm |
I went on a date with a great guy. He was so nice and fun. But he also chatted alot about his ex. he was hurt. She ended the relationship with him a few months ago. By him talking alot about his ex does that mean that he is not over her. I dont want to be a rebound. He wants another date with me. What can I do or say to him, to be sure that he is over his ex. Should I wait a bit to see what happends on he next date before saying anything. What should I do? Should I jus leave it alone for now? Please help

It has been my experience that men who talk a lot about their exes are not over them and/or are not ready to be serious with the woman he talks about his ex to.
This was a first date. His focus should have been on you and getting to know you -- not on venting about his ex.
I'd be careful and take things very slow, if you decide to see him again.
He does sound like he's not totally over it.