first date after painful breakup
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first date after painful breakup
| Sun, 07-11-2004 - 12:13pm |
Hallo :). I just came back from my 1st date since breakup! Went real well. We met for a drink and spent 2.5 hours together chatting, joking, telling stories (hmm...LOOOONG, huh?). I met him thru a friend and he seems real nice. The only thing that i'm not happy with is that it looks like another LDR - he lives in another city and from time to time jumps in where i live.
I have a bit of a weird feeling - i liked him and we both felt very easy around each other. At the end, he just gave me a ride and said it was great to meet me. I don't even know if i expected him to agree on another date before he leaves back to his place (in 2 days).
Anyway, i feel good about meeting him and me finally moving on after the breakup. Just not sure i want another LDR and not sure whether the guy will call me before he leaves.
not obsessing over this at all :), just going with the flow i guess. Would be interested to hear your views

am i just obsessing over nothing? :) just don't know what is it and where it's going. i guess i haven't dated for a while and forgot the "rules of the game"
this date was purely his initiative - he asked mutual friend to introduce him to me via e-mail, flew here, set up a date. and now soon leaving and i'm all left in wonder
he's real nice and i'm plain confused.. :)
I don't think you need be concerned about "where it's going" after 1 date, except to
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