First Date - no follow-up
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First Date - no follow-up
| Wed, 12-14-2005 - 9:14pm |
I went out on a really great first date nearly two weeks ago. I met this fellow at work several months ago when we were both working on the same unit in a hospital. Well, we ran into each other again a couple weeks ago and then he sent me an email asking me to lunch or coffee. We ended up having dinner after work and then, like high-schoolers, made out and talked in his car for a little while. I know that he is supremely busy at work. I invited him via email to a holiday party that I am hosting. He wrote back a brief response and asked how I was doing. I responded and I haven't heard back...that was Friday. My holiday party is this Sunday. I suppose he's not coming, right? Plus, I have to see him at work tomorrow. How do I act? I've never been so surprised by no follow-up...he was so flirty! -----> Disappointed!

Sorry, hon.
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I've been posting these last few weeks about a "3 date wonder" I had.........I too, thought ,everything was going great.
Yo never really know what is going on in someone's life. Alot of guys are in the moment and then other moments intervene. However it was extremely rude of him to respond to your invite email without actually responding to the invite! At this point write him off and if you're pleasantly surprsied, then great. Holidays are a time when people are busy. Enjoy your party in any case. Ask women to bring single men!