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First Date Sex?
| Sun, 09-10-2006 - 1:57am |
I'm afraid I may have messed up and need some advice please. I met a guy online about 2 weeks ago. We exchanged emails, pics, then instant messaged, talked on the phone and finally decided to meet. During our phone calls there was a lot of flirting and the talk got a little sexual. I explained to him though that I wasn't that type of girl and I didn't want him to get the wrong idea about me. And it is true that I'm not like that. I've only had sex with two people and those were relationships. So, we met and the sexual chemistry was crazy. We ended up making out in my car and then because we both have family living with us, we went to a hotel and ended up having sex. Afterwards I drove him back to his car and before getting out he kissed me and asked me if I was going to call him tomorrow. I told him I would if he wanted me to and he said he did. So, the thing is that I'm worried that he is going to look down on me and not have respect for me now. I'm also afraid he is going to think I'm easy and not believe that I haven't really done this before and I'm afraid he won't be interested anymore. Any thoughts?

I can't tell you what this guy is thinking because I'm not him. Quit assuming that anyone is looking down on you, he was in that room too so if you are so easy, so is he. If he didn't want sex he wouldn't have taken you to a hotel.
The only person that needs to respect you is you. You will only know if he is interested if you call him and find out.
Why did he want you to call him vs him calling you?