Flirting impaired...need help!

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Registered: 06-10-2004
Flirting impaired...need help!
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Thu, 06-10-2004 - 12:47pm
I started working at a new company 2 months ago, and immediately developed a "thing" for my team leader, I've been getting signals that my feelings might not be one sided but nothing too overt. On my part, I've been hesitant to just "go for it" because I love my new job, but my new employer strictly prohibits dating between supervisors and subordinates, and everyone in the company is on high alert in the wake of a recent firing of two people caught violating this policy. I was thrilled when I found out early this week that this particular supervisor is soon being transferred to another group, meaning that dating him would no longer be off limits. My dilemma is this: What if I've misinterpreted his signals? How do I let him know (in a way that will still allow me to look him in the eye with a modicum of dignity every freaking work day if I was wrong) that I am DEFINITELY open to seeing him outside of the office. Heeeeelp!
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 12:52pm
Im a hoplessly bad flirter....but welcome!
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