Is this Flirting? Should I respond?

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Is this Flirting? Should I respond?
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Tue, 11-01-2005 - 9:03pm
Hi everyone, please give me some advice.
I have a friend in the hospital(he is okay)and there is
a male nurse there who is very cute and seems so nice.
You know when you have the feeling someone is watching you?-
well I have caught him a few times looking at me as I am sitting there,
but when I look up he glances the other way.
I catch him looking at me up and down when I first arrive there to visit.
I was watching him do his job and maybe once or twice he explained to me a bit of what he was doing and smiled. Sometimes he will make a joke with the other nurses and glance at me. I also caught him glance at me through the mirror.
I was also sitting in the chair and he told me i didn't have to move but he had very little space and his back was right in front of me.
Are these signs? should i respond to any? I don't have much time-sometimes he is not there when I am there-How can I?
Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 6:21am

angels778...

Pianoguy has a question for you.

Have you considered asking this man if he'd be interested in sharing a cup of coffee and a sandwich after his shift is over? Granted...it'll take a little assertiveness on your part, but this is the only way you'll know if the man is married or has a S.O. ?

If the male nurse accepts your invitation, you can tell him a little about yourself and vice versa? If he doesn't...then you'll have to pass up the possibility of a relationship, but you can definitely maintain a friendship!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 8:09am
thanks for the advice :-)