Foul language
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Foul language
| Mon, 10-03-2005 - 6:51pm |
I have been going out with a guy for a bit over a year and in the past couple months he has started referring to making love as "#@*$". I have asked him not to but he continues to the point where it feels insulting. I don't understand why and what to do about it.

Did you tell him that you feel insulted when he used this terminology? If so, the next time he uses these words, tell him that it is a big turn-off and you might not feel like #%$#@#$.
I think he will change his ways very quickly.
Have you asked him why he feels the need to refer to it that way, does he understand why you don't like it= that you consider it demeaning? If this guy doesn't feel the need to act in a respectful, caring manner when you keep requesting it - well, that's good information to have.
But try to have a real sharing, genuine communication about the underneath to this -
Hmmm, I don't know if this is a case where he is intentionally using this foul language because, deep down, he gets some kind of thrill out of annoying you or shocking you.
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