Found "Fling.com" on new beaus pc.

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Registered: 10-11-2006
Found "Fling.com" on new beaus pc.
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Mon, 03-19-2007 - 5:43pm

I flipped out. We've only been dating 2-3 weeks. We were not exclusive. But, this still bothered me.

He said he was "chatting" with people & looking at pictures. Naken women. He swears up & down he is satisfied with me & wasnt looking to meet anyone else. Just that he was looking at free porn.

I don't have a problem with the porn as much as the site he chose to look at it on. There are many other FREE porn sites that aren't personals sites!

This still hurt my ego. What to do?

BTW, I feel I should mention I was not snooping & he was not hiding it. This was on his dropdown internet history.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 6:57pm

Well, this is one of those compatibility issues. Do you want to date a guy who chooses to go on those sites, or not?

He's not doing anything wrong if you're not exclusive--it's just a matter of preference. Some women would be fine with it. If you're not and it's important to you, then he's not a good match for you.

Sheri

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 9:56am
I am sorry that this hurt you. But he was not hiding it on purpose, b/c you are not exclusive, and that is one of the ways, that he is letting you know that this is how he still feels....that's what it sounds like to me....