four dates and no kiss good night!!??

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Registered: 05-22-2004
four dates and no kiss good night!!??
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 6:00am
i'm just wondering what it means. four dates, no move? i really like this guy, should i ask what he thinks? give up?


Edited 5/22/2004 12:41 pm ET ET by lalunaseva
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 10:49am
lalunaseva...

STOP trying to compare this new romance of yours with all the studs you've enjoyed in the past!

Instead..FOCUS on what you HONESTLY want! If it's an hour or two of satisfaction in the sack...then go back to the lifestyle you had before you hooked up with this guy. If you would like to develop something that might last a little longer...GO WITH THE FLOW and DON'T WORRY WHEN HE KISSES YOU OR WHAT HAPPENS NEXT!

By the way...if "substance" is all you require out of any relationship---why not take out a personal ad and ask for "below the waist measurements" from all the applicants that are interested! This way...you can pick and choose in advance!

To be honest...you're a perfect example of why many men don't call a woman again after a couple of dates. "Selfish is...as selfish does!"

Pianoguy

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:54pm
I agree with pianoguy 100%. I wish I had your situation. Lalu, a man who is respectful should be treated with respect in kind. I'm not saying you aren't, I'm just saying that you seem like you're not being straightforward with your needs. If it's sex you're looking for, than you need to go to the "adult" section next time.
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 4:01pm

Hello lalunaseva!

 
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Registered: 05-29-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 9:54pm
Maybe he's an old-fashioned gentleman. If he is, grab him. They're becoming extinct.
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Registered: 02-23-2004
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 1:50am
"Maybe he's an old-fashioned gentleman. If he is, grab him. They're becoming extinct."

No kidding! Ask him of he has a brother for me too, LOL ;)