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Friend or possibly more?
| Sun, 05-30-2004 - 9:01pm |
I am desparately in need of some advice. I have been friends with this guy that I met in college for about a year. Because we had huge breaks between our classes he would sit next to me and we'd sometimes talk for hours, and I since then, I can't stop thinking about him. In the past six months I've found that I want him to be more than a friend. However, he works a lot of hours and so I find it difficult to see him outside of class. Once and a while, I'd casually suggest doing something, but I don't think he caught on. For example, one time we were talking about ice skating, and I said "I've never been ice skating. Maybe you could teach me." His absolutely sincere response, "Well, ice skating is someting that really can't be taught." Sheesh! :P
Sometimes he seems like he's interested in me, but sometimes he acts like he's too busy or something. We graduated in May and I finally got in contact with him and I asked him if he wanted to get something to eat,but he said he had to do something for a friend. I also told him to call me if he wasn't busy, but it's been two weeks and he hasn't called. Should I call and ask him again? Should I tell him I miss him or would that be too pushy? What's my best strategy ladies? I mean, I've never really felt this way about anyone before, so I don't want to scare him off but I really do miss him.
~Amy

Good luck.