Friends with benefits going bad
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Friends with benefits going bad
| Sun, 02-26-2006 - 2:09pm |
I am in a FWB with a guy. When we first started seeing each other I was really falling for him and then after a couple months he let me know he didn't have time for a full time committed relationship. I was very disappointed. So I agreed to a FWB because I could still

Get out. End the relationship ASAP. He very well may sleep with her because he has no commitment to you. You sleeping with him will not stop that. He has made it very clear that all he wants is an FWB. But you want more. Before you wind up even more hurt, I would end this. There's really no other options here.
Kerry
Hi there,
Please cut off this person from your life. I know it's easier said than done, but you will only get hurt if you keep on sleeping with him. He said he doesn't have time for a full committed relationship, i believe that is just an excuse to not have a relationship with you. I have used that line myself with a few guys who wanted to have a relationship with me, but I had no interest in them (that didn't make me want to have a FWB relationship either though)
<> He is having drinks with her, which could possibly mean he is already sleeping with her. So you sleeping or not sleeping with her, it makes no difference.
Thanks for your replies. I didn't say anything to him. He told me on his own that night that he had called her after he called me. They had a couple drinks. His 10 yr old daughter was also there.
Thing is hon, that it doesn't matter if there is or isn't something going on with them. He is not your boyfriend. You do not have a commitment with him. You and him have sex together, no strings attached. I know it's hard, but the way to stop obsessing is by ending the situation with him and moving on. Keep yourself busy, find someone worth your time and love.
Hope this helps.