Friends with Benefits? Maybe no
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Friends with Benefits? Maybe no
| Sun, 03-12-2006 - 10:41pm |
Maybe you can all help me out here in settling a difference of opinion with a friend of mine. My friend has this guy shes been seeing, and according to her they are just "friends with benefits". Now in the beginning, I would agree with her on that. But this guy has started calling her every single day for the past month. To me thats not a friends with benefits relationship, I think this guy has feelings for her. Ive told her she needs to be honest and deal with this.
So what do you all think, daily phone calls, sounds to me like he's looking for more than a friends with benefits relationship????

In my experience, daily phone calls mean nothing. If the expectations have been set for an FWB, unless someone says otherwise it's dangerous to believe that there is more to it than that.
Hope this helps.
Kerry
Unless he has SAID that he wants to change the parameters of their relationship, the behavior means nothing without intent.
Guys can call every day, meet your family, act like they are your bf, etc...but unless the *intent* to be in a relationship is there, the behavior means nothing, and your friend would be foolish, IMO, to rely on it as meaning anything other than he likes to talk to her (i.e., the "friends" part of FWB).
Sheri
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There is only one way to find out. Ask him.