friends first, now what?????

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
friends first, now what?????
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Sun, 08-22-2004 - 3:17pm
hi. i have a good male friend for about 6 years. we always got along very well and hang out all the time. this weekend, me and him got crazy and ended up together. it was fun and i enjoyed having that with him. however, now i am worried. i dont want this to ruin our friendship but we were attracted to each other and went with it. he is a good friend of mine and i want to say something to him about everything. i dont know how to approach this topic though. i dont want him thinking i am looking for anything more, even though i wouldnt disown the idea. however, i am happy at just staying friends. any advice on what i should say or do? i called him and left a short message just to say hi etc. he usually picks up the phone right away but this time he didnt. now i am worried...........help!

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Registered: 02-29-2004
Sat, 08-28-2004 - 1:29pm
You don't need to blame yourself at all.

But he did reveal to you an aspect to his charachter that isn't very attractive.

Not showing up or calling you makes him a jerk not you.

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