friends with your ex??

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Registered: 02-05-2008
friends with your ex??
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Fri, 02-15-2008 - 6:40pm

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 02-23-2008 - 8:49pm
MY best friend is an ex - but yes you can only do this is both people are ok with just being friends and boundaries are set - i.e. not sleeping together, not discussing every detail of your dating lives, etc.
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Registered: 02-05-2008
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 9:26am

We've still been talking alot and I am a little confused now in trying to figure if at times I have a right to be upset or if I'm just being a brat about something.

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 7:01pm
I didnt say he evil.
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Registered: 02-05-2008
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 9:07pm
Actually, I hate the "tussle and tangle"... but, as we all know, it's hard to shake someone u love... Trying, though...!
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 7:43pm

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 8:21pm

You're right of course about the complete break.. I totally agree.

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Registered: 02-26-2008
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 2:46pm

OMG!!!!!!!!!! i was about to write almost the same message about my ex and me..........i know exactly how u feel...ive never been friends with any of my exes but i really love this guy and we dont wanna be enemies. we basically have been froken up for the past 2 months but we kept hanging out and that made things worse cus our feelings for eachother are still there. so my heart tells me to fight for him my brain says NO!!! i gotta leave him alone so he can miss me and realize what he had. He broke up with me because he has never really dated and says that im what he was looking for but that he is too young to settle down(he's 21 im 24). He says he can see himself with me for a long time and thats why we cant be together cus he is not ready to settle down.


when we see eachother even now its like we cant help it we wanna be together but then it hits him that he is not ready. so i decided that before we end up hurting eachother more i should try to move forward for now and see what happens later on you know.

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 5:46pm

Hey!!

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 6:30pm

Men like what they dont have.

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Registered: 02-26-2008
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 11:16am

SO its day 3 for me LOL feels like its been a week already!AHHH


Wow!! its pretty scary cus i can relate to soo