G-F wants to break up with me over sex.
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G-F wants to break up with me over sex.
| Wed, 11-22-2006 - 4:47pm |
Here is the issue... My g-f is hot and has a wonderful personality. I have never dated such a "high class" girl before. It makes me nervious and intiminated. When it comes to sex I have Performance Anxiety due to this she can't wait any longer for me to get over it so she is telling me I hvae little time before we are done. SHould I just take time off to figure and get over my Performance Anxiety? Or should I make up a false story and make it look like I messed up? Not sure what to do? But, this thing is ending.

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. If she is pressuring you over sex then she is not probably the right woman for you. Physical attraction slowly wanes after a period of time, what really matters is that if you think she can be your best friend, someone that can be there for you in times of highs and lows in your life.
Sure some women are a complete package but we are only human beings, we grow old, we can gain or lose a lot of weight just like men. Do not put that gf of yours in a pedestal, look at her just like a natural human being, I'm sure she has other insecurities and weaknesses as well. And keep reminding yourself what kind of attributes you have versus what you don't have. By looking at her as an equal partner I think you will overcome your anxiety. I hope that helps.
tchin21...
A quick question from Pianoguy:
Besides the S-E-X....is there anything else the 2 of you enjoy doing together?
Maybe you should 'total up the sum of the parts' (and not just the physical ones)? You might arrive at a decision a lot faster as to whether to continue dating her...or not?
Pianoguy
I'm sorry but she may not be as beautiful on the inside as this sounds like manipulation, again by her clock alone, if a relationship doesn't feel good or easy than say Bye Bye.
Suzie