Getting back into dating
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| Thu, 04-08-2004 - 3:15pm |
Now, I'm single again and having the typical doubts on appearance and what to disclose about myself to someone new. That I can deal with. I went on a couple of dates with this guy who seemed real nice, but both times I met him, he wanted to buy me drinks all the time and was trying to insist that I keep drinking even though I made it clear that I wasn't going to(being responsible about driving and such). I think he might be an alcoholic but with such limited time with him, can't be sure. My main issue is that when he touched me(holding hands, hand on my back under my shirt) I didn't feel anything. Ya know, like goosebumps or shivers. When I go out dancing with guys, and get freaky, I don't feel anything...even though the men are quite excited and often want to get to know me better afterward. I am concerned that I could be emotionally frigid due to the loss of my love, even though I am perfectly capable of enjoying myself by myself. I like sex and don't want to think that he "ruined" me for other men. Is it possible that I just need more time? I have heard it's better to just move on quickly versus just taking your time, as that can lead to not being motivated to try again. PLEASE HELP!

Who the heck told you that?????