Getting back with an ex
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| Mon, 11-29-2004 - 6:46pm |
Lately I have been thinking of my ex boyfriend from high school. He was my first love and we dated for nine months when I broke up with him for really no reason at all, I was just immature and stupid. We kinda have been talking back and forth through college but we never have mentioned to each other about getting back together. A few times we were going to get together to see each other in college but never did because I was busy and stuff. I went to the same college he did for two years, then I transfered to a different college because of my current boyfriend. I went to the same college as my ex because of my ex. I still liked him. He is out of college now and has a job, an apartment and lives an hour away from where I am. I am a senior in college going to graduate in May. My ex's longest relationship has been a year. He is single now but "talking" to someone. He said that he isn't doing the long term stuff until he finds the right girl.
I have been seeing my current boyfriend for four and a half years now and I am engaged. He proposed to me over the summer. He is everything I want in a guy and I could see myself with him in my future but I have been thinking of my ex and wondering what if my ex is the right guy, and I want to see what it would be like if we got back together.
I have been crying over this and confused. I will be planning a wedding soon for the fall but I don't know if I'm ready to get married. I just would like to see my ex and see if there is anything between us anymore before I get married but I wouldn't want to screw up what I have with my current boyfriend right now. I haven't been the same for about a month because I've been thinking about my ex all the time, wanting to be with him. I don't know what to do.

If your fiance is cute, treats you well and have the qualities of a guy you want then dont just throw it away, like when you broke your ex's heart in HS.