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| Sun, 07-29-2007 - 7:29pm |
Why do so many guys just disappear? Even when things are going absolutely fine, not a wrinkle or bump in sight...they just vanish, literally without explanation. I don't think anything can be more hurtful to a girl. Especially when there was a very regular routine of contact, going out. I was seeing the absolute sweetest, most considerate guy for two weeks, or what I thought was a sweet, considerate guy. Both of us have been through a lot, and have shared experiences, thoughts, etc. neither of us has shared before, because we were afraid to. We had great chemistry, there was an easy give and take of friendship between us as well as definite physical attraction. Now he has just disappeared, no call, email, etc. of any sort of explanation. I called him, just once, to ask if everything was ok as we had made plans to get together today. I've yet to hear back. I know I have not know him all that long but this is very out of character for him, meaning, when this has happened before in the past, the guy was usually a jerk from the beginning. This guy was not at all. He definitely seems like if things were not working out for whatever reason, he would tell me. Why do so many guys hurt girls this way? This guy was so different, he treated me so well, if a guy like that can just turn, forget it, I'm not dating anymore...the pain and confusion of this has become too much to bear. I'd rather just deal with the occasional bouts of feeling lonely by myself.

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Hi snafu,
That is a really cool idea! I can't wait to try that...I wish I had known sooner. Well, if I ever get crazy enough to try dating someone AGAIN, I will definitely work that in ASAP! Thank you!!!
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